To give the Fables: bees and flowers
withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the venom .
bees know this, because the venom bitter taste is the big difference with the previous. So, the bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed?!
Finally one day, do not know why, bee vibrating wings, fly a little higher. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere.
Psychological Review
This is about love allegory is a young language teacher's true sentiment.
some time, she rejected in love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. we have some time But almost two months later, the total time they can not happen to get together.
the last time about her, she said: back from Jiuzhaigou. the pain of lost love is still plagued her, let her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. that moment, her mind power flash like thunder appeared saying: in the bee, of course refers to herself. that moment, her insight to give up the truth out. In the past, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
not easy to give up, love to give up, especially in painful. because love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. young children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If Mom and Dad completely deny him, and that means death for him, this is the ultimate injury and fear. We have experienced more or less been denied parents the pain and fear, so when love - the parent-child relationships copy once again we experience the pain and fear, our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do everything Parents have the final say; But now we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. can be said that a child, we do not have wings, bee, but now we have one pair of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love, we will return to childhood, we forget that they have a pair of wings to fly. and so we ourselves realize that, the love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, We love to get a free, have the power to give up.
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, there are things that people independent personality. You can work, but it does not mean you there will be hard to effect, as another person, you are not around.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
and, also remember, you are no longer childhood, can only let the pain of torture. you have adults, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.
(seven ) close Fable: The Little Prince
unique rose a small planet, the planet suddenly had a tender and beautiful roses blooming. In the past, unknown on this planet only a few flowers, the little prince had never seen such a beautiful flower, and he fell in love with this rose, carefully nurtured her.
that for some time, he thought, this is a unique flower on earth, only his only planet, other places does not exist.
, however, so he came to Earth and found that there is a garden just the same as 5000 of this flower. At this time, he knows, he is just an ordinary flower there.
At first, this discovery, let the little prince was very sad. But in the end, the little prince to understand, despite numerous roses in the world, but his planet tis is still unique because that rose, and he poured However, cover flowers to cover her with a screen protection too, in addition to her body caterpillars, but also to listen to her grumbled, or boasted, listening to silence her ... ... a word, and he tamed her, and she tamed He, she is his unique roses.
psychological
This is a French classic Rose, the little prince said: The with several ten lover, is no longer a rare thing too. But I know who these promiscuous, no one is empty. they do not enjoy the relationship, they just enjoy the conquest.
who desire stronger, more intimacy for the relationship are not interested in (the world's managers blog Once you have, they will quickly lose interest in this intimate relationship. the stronger the desire to conquer, the faster the rate of loss. attractive.
However, the relationship between the United States, is almost the level of commitment they were tame and level. When two people are naturally going into, naturally, be tamed, relations will become a life nourishment, so that a person filling the lives of more and better.
However, no matter how close. The Little Prince is still Prince, Rose is still a rose, they are still two individuals. If Rose let the little prince travel, or travel the little prince not to carry around when the roses, they have to stick together, the relationship is no longer enjoy, but will become a burden.
Remember: both a close and mutually independent relationship, better than a thousand General relations. such a relationship, will we incorrigible sense of isolation from the rescue, the most important of our lives a 救赎.
If never experienced, you can not know the relationship the United States.
(a) the growth of fable: the growth of apple trees will never do a
an apple tree, and finally the result was.
the first year, which end up with 10 apples, 9 were taken away, they receive one. In response, angry apple trees, so from the off, in turn, refused to grow. The next year, it bears a five apples, four were taken away, they receive one. 10% get 20% this year! doubled. go 90, they receive 10.
likely, it was taken away 99, they receive one. but it does not matter, it can continue to grow the fruit of the third year-end 1000 ... ...
fact, how much fruit is not the most important. The most important thing is the tree to grow! such as apple trees grow into towering trees, those who have hindered its growth will be weak to negligible power. really, do not worry so much about fruit growth is the most important.
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