First, when you can rely on when no one , however hard it is , how tired it hurt , must tell themselves not to give up, be strong.
Second, even if the world 's people do not understand you, at least he still knows himself.
third , fantasies never become reality, I keep reminding myself to keep awake , calm down.
Fourth , the reality is cruel, but would carry it to work .
five , is pretty doomed , not hard to pursue , they do not want to know how to appreciate the beautiful other side.
six thousand a sleep solution worry , even if the solution can not also forget to make their own short-term , win a moment of peace.
seven , for their courage to love again , do not give yourself a lifetime of regret.
eight , self-confidence and optimism are often worth more than a beautiful face .
nine , to learn to value their own to protect themselves.
ten , never, never be a good boy .
with mixed feelings , to see the complexity of life , and take the complicated way.
; ; look at others with their hearts the story of ...
learn to strong, learn to be independent ! Society Xiaokan life! Society , as things light ...
Monday, April 25, 2011
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Learn to control emotions
irritated by others, is their lack of moral cultivation.
people that one moment of anger, intelligence is zero, over a minute back to normal.
's elegance lies in control of their emotions.
mouth hurts, is the most stupid kind of behavior.
; ; - Inscription
we often controlled by emotions, I do not know how they should explain how to control the emotions of another.
I once wrote:
growing up, is the continuous process of freedom, but also learn to manage their own emotional process.
our lack of freedom, usually because of negative feelings from the heart about us.
can control the negative emotions of a person, than a person can win a great city.
hidden in the heart of negative emotions emerge from time to time in the life:
once, in a pool, there lived a bad temper in the turtle, he came here to drink the two geese became good friends.
Later, a year, drought, the water dried up, and turtle had no choice but decided to move, it wants to live geese go south. But it will not fly, so the two geese with a branch, called the turtle biting the middle, Dayan told the turtle do not speak at an end, to set off in flight.
they flew over the green fields, over the blue lake. Children saw the ground, that this combination is very interesting, clap laugh: An open mouth to fall down, closed on a stone and died.
Dayan sighed:
Moreover, emotions may even hurt others, and can not recover:
a boy, very willful, often people get angry. One day, his father gave him a bag of nails and told him: So he nailed 37 nails, and slowly, the boy found his temper than to nail the next one easier to nail, so he made the temper of the times each day to a little reduced. Finally one day, the boy can control their emotions, and not arbitrary temper.
father told him:
father took his hand, came to the backyard fence, and said: look, you say angry words hurt others, will be like a nail wounds in others heart, no matter how much you say sorry afterwards, those scars will last forever.
we can do a test: If you make a smiling face, then you will immediately feel the mood to increase somewhat pleasant. Psychological studies have shown that emotions can affect not only people's behavior, and in turn, can affect people's emotions. Not only in the psychological control of their emotions, and modern physiological research shows that people in their own blood pressure, heart rate, etc., can be controlled. Moreover, emotions?
are many ways to control their emotions, I think, at least the following is feasible:
(1) transfer
attention to the pleasure of their affairs.
(2) separation
spread your worries and put them separately. Do not worry about the trouble with the other link. Do not bother, to be enlarged artificially. Specific troubles, specific solution, do not count in the general ledger.
(3) weakening
weaken your troubles, for the stimulation of non-principle, we are following closely the gate must learn as much as possible do not listen, do not look, do not feel, do not let it enter. If you enter to try not to think, not thinking, not memory.
(4) understanding
angry because someone else to punish their own fault. Forgive others also spared itself. In addition, the other as an objective existence.
(5) is for a free
perspective. Higher and more long-term from the wider and deeper perspective on issues, and make it a new understanding, in order to jump out of the original limitations. Make their own spirit was free to put their energy into their own pursuit of the goal up. For example, blessing in disguise, a blessing in disguise, is the classic free thinking.
(6) sublimation
use of strong emotional impulses, and it lead to a positive and useful directions up, so that it has a constructive meaning and value.
(7) offset
for another stimulus. Loud music next door open as to make themselves upset, using the previous method is invalid, may wish to open their own sound, play your favorite music ...
(8) using
the bad things into good things. First, the timing and use of objective conditions, the second is their use of emotion, the emotion sublimated into force.
(9) expression
writing, talking.
With effective management and utilization of emotions, people will more and more freedom, more chic.
still while the wind blows the tree, true freedom is manifested in: the roots of the firm, Shugan branches sway in the wind strength and ease, the harmonious unity.
people that one moment of anger, intelligence is zero, over a minute back to normal.
's elegance lies in control of their emotions.
mouth hurts, is the most stupid kind of behavior.
; ; - Inscription
we often controlled by emotions, I do not know how they should explain how to control the emotions of another.
I once wrote:
growing up, is the continuous process of freedom, but also learn to manage their own emotional process.
our lack of freedom, usually because of negative feelings from the heart about us.
can control the negative emotions of a person, than a person can win a great city.
hidden in the heart of negative emotions emerge from time to time in the life:
once, in a pool, there lived a bad temper in the turtle, he came here to drink the two geese became good friends.
Later, a year, drought, the water dried up, and turtle had no choice but decided to move, it wants to live geese go south. But it will not fly, so the two geese with a branch, called the turtle biting the middle, Dayan told the turtle do not speak at an end, to set off in flight.
they flew over the green fields, over the blue lake. Children saw the ground, that this combination is very interesting, clap laugh: An open mouth to fall down, closed on a stone and died.
Dayan sighed:
Moreover, emotions may even hurt others, and can not recover:
a boy, very willful, often people get angry. One day, his father gave him a bag of nails and told him: So he nailed 37 nails, and slowly, the boy found his temper than to nail the next one easier to nail, so he made the temper of the times each day to a little reduced. Finally one day, the boy can control their emotions, and not arbitrary temper.
father told him:
father took his hand, came to the backyard fence, and said: look, you say angry words hurt others, will be like a nail wounds in others heart, no matter how much you say sorry afterwards, those scars will last forever.
we can do a test: If you make a smiling face, then you will immediately feel the mood to increase somewhat pleasant. Psychological studies have shown that emotions can affect not only people's behavior, and in turn, can affect people's emotions. Not only in the psychological control of their emotions, and modern physiological research shows that people in their own blood pressure, heart rate, etc., can be controlled. Moreover, emotions?
are many ways to control their emotions, I think, at least the following is feasible:
(1) transfer
attention to the pleasure of their affairs.
(2) separation
spread your worries and put them separately. Do not worry about the trouble with the other link. Do not bother, to be enlarged artificially. Specific troubles, specific solution, do not count in the general ledger.
(3) weakening
weaken your troubles, for the stimulation of non-principle, we are following closely the gate must learn as much as possible do not listen, do not look, do not feel, do not let it enter. If you enter to try not to think, not thinking, not memory.
(4) understanding
angry because someone else to punish their own fault. Forgive others also spared itself. In addition, the other as an objective existence.
(5) is for a free
perspective. Higher and more long-term from the wider and deeper perspective on issues, and make it a new understanding, in order to jump out of the original limitations. Make their own spirit was free to put their energy into their own pursuit of the goal up. For example, blessing in disguise, a blessing in disguise, is the classic free thinking.
(6) sublimation
use of strong emotional impulses, and it lead to a positive and useful directions up, so that it has a constructive meaning and value.
(7) offset
for another stimulus. Loud music next door open as to make themselves upset, using the previous method is invalid, may wish to open their own sound, play your favorite music ...
(8) using
the bad things into good things. First, the timing and use of objective conditions, the second is their use of emotion, the emotion sublimated into force.
(9) expression
writing, talking.
With effective management and utilization of emotions, people will more and more freedom, more chic.
still while the wind blows the tree, true freedom is manifested in: the roots of the firm, Shugan branches sway in the wind strength and ease, the harmonious unity.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Quanzhou is one you should know
Quanzhou people you should know: the province's economic center of Quanzhou, Fujian, more than a quarter of the economy came from Quanzhou. Quanzhou economy for 17 consecutive years ranked first in the province.
2, Quanzhou people you should know: Seven hundred counties in Fujian Province, five came from Quanzhou, respectively, Jinjiang, Shishi, Wai, Nam, and Anxi. Jinjiang, China ranked the first five of them.
3, Quanzhou people you should know:
Jinjiang City - Chinese shoes, Shishi City - China Leisure Garment city, hundred national science and technology, cultural hundred counties (cities), the National Health Advanced City, National Model City for mutual support and education in advanced cities in Fujian Province, and spiritual civilization advanced city
Nanan City - the capital of China Plumbing Stone City - Chinese stone carving are
Anxi County - Chinese tea are
Yongchun County - the citrus capital of
4, Quanzhou people you should know: 624 million worldwide Quanzhou Overseas Chinese distribution more than 110 countries accounting for one-fifth of overseas Chinese. 70 million people in Hong Kong and Macao in Quanzhou. Taiwan 44.8% (about nine million) of people whose ancestral home in Quanzhou.
5, you should know is Quanzhou: Quanzhou is the ancient and many other religions.
7, Quanzhou people you should know: a National Huaqiao University in Quanzhou (a), Quanzhou Normal University (Quanzhou University) (two), Yang-En University, dawn of the University, Fujian University of Technology, Germany College of Ceramics.
8, you should know is Quanzhou: Quanzhou eighth King: James Gate Street, East Lake Park, Wuli Bridge, Cai ancient houses, House Temple, Kaiyuan Temple, Chongwu city, Luoyang Bridge, cattle Farm Lin, Qing water, Qingyuan, West Lake Park, Shenzhen and Shanghai Bay, Tin Hau Temple, Gold Coast, Xian Gong Shan, Dai Xian Falls, Zheng Historical
9, Quanzhou people you should know: Ming is the first Quanzhou a port, now the world's hundred ports. (because of not only the development of neighboring countries of Taiwan, fear of the bombing during the war to the white dry)
10, ; is Quanzhou you should know: In the Song Dynasty Shaoxing, the generation of Daru Xi Kaiyuan Temple in Quanzhou, who have written couplet goes: Originally known Buddhist place, the streets were saints.
11, Quanzhou is one you should know: Quanzhou, the Taiwanese people to use the international language, in Singapore, Malaysia, the Philippines and other Southeast Asian countries, including Taiwan and Taiwan is our motherland Taiwanese general, than to use a wide range of Cantonese . we have a saying: to understand the Minnan dialect, all over Southeast Asia.
12, Quanzhou people you should know: We have a lot of pride, but also There are many places to develop, more a lot to learn. young people of Quanzhou, Quanzhou, our mission is to once again become the world's port cities in the country the first three.
2, Quanzhou people you should know: Seven hundred counties in Fujian Province, five came from Quanzhou, respectively, Jinjiang, Shishi, Wai, Nam, and Anxi. Jinjiang, China ranked the first five of them.
3, Quanzhou people you should know:
Jinjiang City - Chinese shoes, Shishi City - China Leisure Garment city, hundred national science and technology, cultural hundred counties (cities), the National Health Advanced City, National Model City for mutual support and education in advanced cities in Fujian Province, and spiritual civilization advanced city
Nanan City - the capital of China Plumbing Stone City - Chinese stone carving are
Anxi County - Chinese tea are
Yongchun County - the citrus capital of
4, Quanzhou people you should know: 624 million worldwide Quanzhou Overseas Chinese distribution more than 110 countries accounting for one-fifth of overseas Chinese. 70 million people in Hong Kong and Macao in Quanzhou. Taiwan 44.8% (about nine million) of people whose ancestral home in Quanzhou.
5, you should know is Quanzhou: Quanzhou is the ancient and many other religions.
7, Quanzhou people you should know: a National Huaqiao University in Quanzhou (a), Quanzhou Normal University (Quanzhou University) (two), Yang-En University, dawn of the University, Fujian University of Technology, Germany College of Ceramics.
8, you should know is Quanzhou: Quanzhou eighth King: James Gate Street, East Lake Park, Wuli Bridge, Cai ancient houses, House Temple, Kaiyuan Temple, Chongwu city, Luoyang Bridge, cattle Farm Lin, Qing water, Qingyuan, West Lake Park, Shenzhen and Shanghai Bay, Tin Hau Temple, Gold Coast, Xian Gong Shan, Dai Xian Falls, Zheng Historical
9, Quanzhou people you should know: Ming is the first Quanzhou a port, now the world's hundred ports. (because of not only the development of neighboring countries of Taiwan, fear of the bombing during the war to the white dry)
10, ; is Quanzhou you should know: In the Song Dynasty Shaoxing, the generation of Daru Xi Kaiyuan Temple in Quanzhou, who have written couplet goes: Originally known Buddhist place, the streets were saints.
11, Quanzhou is one you should know: Quanzhou, the Taiwanese people to use the international language, in Singapore, Malaysia, the Philippines and other Southeast Asian countries, including Taiwan and Taiwan is our motherland Taiwanese general, than to use a wide range of Cantonese . we have a saying: to understand the Minnan dialect, all over Southeast Asia.
12, Quanzhou people you should know: We have a lot of pride, but also There are many places to develop, more a lot to learn. young people of Quanzhou, Quanzhou, our mission is to once again become the world's port cities in the country the first three.
Monday, April 11, 2011
psp battery locked mad
Psp battery locked mad, there is no way to unlock only the discharge ! , 3v motor with a continuous 24 hours have not unpacked, see the online posts get people all night and finally the motor stopped the next day morning , 48 hours straight , a happy turn , or by charging on the psp No, toss a half-day to determine the motor burned out , halo , psp1000 battery so powerful it? Then bought a 4.5v motor , Jie Shangqu continue to put , and finally had a place to play for 30 hours , and connected to the p rushed for 10 minutes showed 1% of the normal boot , the unlock was successful, but the two motors Consideration is also quite expensive, not fully charged after the matter aside , and Oh, really small battery p cattle , and then made a cell phone charging cable , next time lock directly connected to charge their cell phones , hum to not put Endless power, the use of motor discharge line that is misleading ah ~
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Medical staff who understand the frustration - Doctors Posts
Do you know what a doctor to go through it?
he must have very good results, very high in the entrance examination into the Medical scores, and then in college at least 5 years of very hard Learning to become a college of medical graduates. Among the study so that they lose a lot of lives, many students say, into the Medical University, know that this is not thought of the university, what party, what friendship is all like wishful thinking, even if the party is seen as political tasks, to be forced. Into the Medical University High School teacher told us that the Into the Medical hear people say all day long, Medical University, no beauty. Maybe, beauty can not stand to toss, how could suffer at the Medical University, say that again, even beautiful, and no time come dressed Medical University, and slowly turned into a not beautiful. This 5-year study and life seems to repeat the high school, a lot of pressure. Looked at another university friend, then relax, have a wealth of university life, and Medical only classrooms and cafeteria.
the end of 5 years when you learn Medical University, you think that the liberation, the end, no, just tragic to start. Now the introduction of three-year training cycle, which is simply the exploitation of naked! However, hospital doctors want to have cheap rotary helped write a lot of medical history, a lot of debris alive, and then prick deducted from your meager wages. Even three years out, what? Training is not necessarily how well the hospital will give you the training or education. Why do not you study section, or rotation through families, when you have twenty-seven eight years old, did not become a resident, after seven years, eight years or even decades to pay later (because of medical students has been found work), is near 30, and it is to get married, have children, buy a house, a miserable wages two or three thousand dollars, but you have no way, do not say what rebates and the like, because at this time also 'm not qualified to receive, nor received, the most bitter, most tired is that you need most is your money, and the most sad thing is you. Compared with peers, you pay the most get only a little, do you think is fair? Perhaps four or five-year-old director of the mingled, could get money, but the amount of money then what is the use? Moreover, even if the money, buy a house a good point, good point of the car, people say that the doctor was so rich collection of black money, so even if the money did not dare to make use of them. Doctor, your time is work, work is always just ahead, but not leaving on time. If you are a doctor, you better not look for male and female friends, because there is no time to accompany her, as long as a phone, even if you are dating, you should report immediately to the hospital. Long this continues, who can bear? Have never had better than a good loss again. But still many people who want to marry a doctor, said doctors earn more, work stability, you are wrong, please consider all aspects before deciding, then maybe you do not want to find a doctor. The industry does not want their offspring or doctor, which is the sad place of a professional. Many people only see the scenery of some doctors, do not see the efforts behind the other, in most people's eyes, the medical profession is the envy of it!
You know?
as a doctor, he needs a strong body, because he may stop to surgery is seven or eight hours
As a doctor, he needs intelligent mind, because he can remember that the vast sea of books on literature
; as a doctor, he needs genteel temper, because he can question the patient to survive the fiery as a
doctor, he needs to perfect communication, because he can explain every issue raised in patients with
as a doctor, he needs quick thinking, because so that he can handle the unexpected emergency
piece country and people may have forgotten, the doctor is not Superman, but also to eat, have a rest, but also family members, also support the family, the doctor's salary is so high you think the rumors, or the scum of the trade made some profane things in this profession, however, most doctors still very difficult to live. I never saw a doctor live in luxury, driving a Mercedes-Benz, BMW, if any, will be said to have received the black money. Such an environment requires a doctor only single one, to all of devotion to the state and society, not love, not family, not friendship, because there is no time to manage these feelings, in that case, perhaps the medical ethics is no longer a problem, Perhaps the medicine is very clever. once had a friend told me that the problem is, not the post at this level should be the salary and respect, there is no rewarded!
he must have very good results, very high in the entrance examination into the Medical scores, and then in college at least 5 years of very hard Learning to become a college of medical graduates. Among the study so that they lose a lot of lives, many students say, into the Medical University, know that this is not thought of the university, what party, what friendship is all like wishful thinking, even if the party is seen as political tasks, to be forced. Into the Medical University High School teacher told us that the Into the Medical hear people say all day long, Medical University, no beauty. Maybe, beauty can not stand to toss, how could suffer at the Medical University, say that again, even beautiful, and no time come dressed Medical University, and slowly turned into a not beautiful. This 5-year study and life seems to repeat the high school, a lot of pressure. Looked at another university friend, then relax, have a wealth of university life, and Medical only classrooms and cafeteria.
the end of 5 years when you learn Medical University, you think that the liberation, the end, no, just tragic to start. Now the introduction of three-year training cycle, which is simply the exploitation of naked! However, hospital doctors want to have cheap rotary helped write a lot of medical history, a lot of debris alive, and then prick deducted from your meager wages. Even three years out, what? Training is not necessarily how well the hospital will give you the training or education. Why do not you study section, or rotation through families, when you have twenty-seven eight years old, did not become a resident, after seven years, eight years or even decades to pay later (because of medical students has been found work), is near 30, and it is to get married, have children, buy a house, a miserable wages two or three thousand dollars, but you have no way, do not say what rebates and the like, because at this time also 'm not qualified to receive, nor received, the most bitter, most tired is that you need most is your money, and the most sad thing is you. Compared with peers, you pay the most get only a little, do you think is fair? Perhaps four or five-year-old director of the mingled, could get money, but the amount of money then what is the use? Moreover, even if the money, buy a house a good point, good point of the car, people say that the doctor was so rich collection of black money, so even if the money did not dare to make use of them. Doctor, your time is work, work is always just ahead, but not leaving on time. If you are a doctor, you better not look for male and female friends, because there is no time to accompany her, as long as a phone, even if you are dating, you should report immediately to the hospital. Long this continues, who can bear? Have never had better than a good loss again. But still many people who want to marry a doctor, said doctors earn more, work stability, you are wrong, please consider all aspects before deciding, then maybe you do not want to find a doctor. The industry does not want their offspring or doctor, which is the sad place of a professional. Many people only see the scenery of some doctors, do not see the efforts behind the other, in most people's eyes, the medical profession is the envy of it!
You know?
as a doctor, he needs a strong body, because he may stop to surgery is seven or eight hours
As a doctor, he needs intelligent mind, because he can remember that the vast sea of books on literature
; as a doctor, he needs genteel temper, because he can question the patient to survive the fiery as a
doctor, he needs to perfect communication, because he can explain every issue raised in patients with
as a doctor, he needs quick thinking, because so that he can handle the unexpected emergency
piece country and people may have forgotten, the doctor is not Superman, but also to eat, have a rest, but also family members, also support the family, the doctor's salary is so high you think the rumors, or the scum of the trade made some profane things in this profession, however, most doctors still very difficult to live. I never saw a doctor live in luxury, driving a Mercedes-Benz, BMW, if any, will be said to have received the black money. Such an environment requires a doctor only single one, to all of devotion to the state and society, not love, not family, not friendship, because there is no time to manage these feelings, in that case, perhaps the medical ethics is no longer a problem, Perhaps the medicine is very clever. once had a friend told me that the problem is, not the post at this level should be the salary and respect, there is no rewarded!
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
nothing
I want to calm want to see everyone, everything, in fact, I Small world, there is no need to tangle so much .
finally see that their climb to the desired position, there would be no hard Unfortunately , I have to do is look to their own efforts .
i thought I want to own the King , do not want to meet any one look, I do not Should be discarded and Jieao my stubborn , I will not give your own pointless
reason to force myself to go for the so-called calm , silence will be submerged.
a lot of things are not as important in their own imagination , I think I've put myself in the wrong Position.
I found my mistake a lot of things , done a lot of the wrong choice and paid a Unnecessary costs , and I want to go too far.
I do not want any illusions , will not be turned into life, not to go I did not belong to shape the landscape .
easy!
finally see that their climb to the desired position, there would be no hard Unfortunately , I have to do is look to their own efforts .
i thought I want to own the King , do not want to meet any one look, I do not Should be discarded and Jieao my stubborn , I will not give your own pointless
reason to force myself to go for the so-called calm , silence will be submerged.
a lot of things are not as important in their own imagination , I think I've put myself in the wrong Position.
I found my mistake a lot of things , done a lot of the wrong choice and paid a Unnecessary costs , and I want to go too far.
I do not want any illusions , will not be turned into life, not to go I did not belong to shape the landscape .
easy!
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